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Choose a Suitable Partner.

Co-create The Relationship You Really Want.

Get the Love You Need.


You Have a String of Failed Relationships

You start every relationship with a lot of excitement and hope, but soon realise that it’s not going to work out. You don’t quite understand where you’re going wrong.

You Choose the Wrong Partner

The people you date seem lovely but once you fall for them you realise that yet again you feel lonely, they are selfish or unkind or they are just like your ex.

You Stay in an Unhappy Relationship

You know that things aren’t working out between you and your partner, but you’re not sure why or what to do next so you hang in there hoping that things will get better.

You Feel Sad, Lonely, and Hopeless

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, you just don’t feel happy or good about yourself. You feel sensitive, defensive and worried that you’re unlovable.

You Feel Really Scared to Try Again

After all the heartbreak, hurt, and pain from the past, you’re really scared to try again – especially, because you don’t really know how and why it all went so wrong.

If you can relate to any of these, then you may have just stumbled across the solution to your relationship problems! Keep reading to find out how I can help you finally have a healthy and loving relationship …

This Course Is a Perfect Match for You If ...

You Are Single And …

date and choose unsuitable partners.
are sick of having one unhappy relationship after another.
just don’t understand where you are going wrong.
worry that you’ll pick the wrong partner again.
don’t want to get hurt again.
don’t want to waste any more time on what doesn’t work.

You Are in a Relationship …

wonder where the love has gone.
feel unfulfilled and desperately unhappy.
battle through endless arguments.
don’t know whether to leave or stay.
stay because you're scared of being alone.
want to find love in your current relationship.

Whether you’re single or in an unhappy relationship, the Get Relationship Ready Course will help you understand what’s going on, where you’re going wrong and how to resolve your problems so that you can feel good about yourself and have a healthy and loving relationship.

This course is designed for anyone struggling to choose a suitable partner and make their relationship work. It’s for any gender, any sexual orientation, and any cultural background.

As it is designed by a fully qualified psychotherapist, it is also suitable for anyone struggling with mental health issues, codependency, past abuse, CPTSD, or attachment issues.

Why We'll Make a Great Team

Hi, I’m Marlena

I’m an experienced and fully qualified psychotherapist, relationship coach, and codependency expert. I work with people who struggle to find love in their life and make their relationships work.

Maybe you believe that what you have experienced in your relationships is just what relationships are like. Maybe you don’t think that love is possible for you. Maybe you think that love and happiness are reserved for a select few and that you’re just not one of them. 

But let me reassure you, you can get the love you need. It’s true!

Let me repeat that: You can get the love you need. You can have an amazing relationship. Just because it hasn’t happened yet, doesn’t mean that it won’t.

Especially once you learn why it hasn’t worked before and choose to get relationship ready! Now you’re ready for the magic to happen. Now you can live a life in which you feel good about yourself, in which are you supported within a healthy and loving relationship, in which you create a life you really love.

Most of the people I have helped to feel loved and have a healthy relationship feared that it was just not meant to happen for them. They worried that they were somehow flawed or too damaged to experience love. 

We all have a history. We all have past experiences that somehow impact on how we are in relationships today. But our past does not have to define us. Our past does not determine our future – not if we don’t let it.

You can get what you want. I have seen it happen thousands of times. I have done it myself.

Now it’s your turn!

With Love, Marlena

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Are You Ready to Get Relationship Ready?

Getting relationship-ready means understanding what a relationship is, what it can do for you, what it can’t do for you, what is healthy and what is unhealthy and how your past influences your future. 

It means becoming aware of your relationship patterns, relationship dynamics, and relationship blueprint and learning to make wise choices for yourself that help you get what you want.

It involves changing how you feel about yourself so you naturally learn to value yourself enough to welcome a loving relationship into your life. You will learn to say no to what does not serve you or fit within with what you want for yourself. No guilt, just joyful confidence.

Get Relationship Ready So You Can

Date successfully
Choose a suitable partner
Enter a healthy relationship
Set healthy boundaries
Ask for what you want
Feel better about yourself
Dissolve your love blocks
Decrease drama and conflict
Develop healthy expectations
Have more fun in life and love
Leave an unhappy relationship
Create a fun relationship vision
Make better choices for yourself
Let go of past hurts and fears
Get more of what you want


You just have to know how to ...

“Relationship success is not reserved for a special few. It is something we can all create and achieve … once we know how to.” ~ Marlena Tillhon

What Previous Clients Have to Say

“I actually like myself now after working with Marlena. And I guess that’s why I managed to get into a good relationship. No more push and pull. No more hot and cold. I know I couldn’t have done it without Marlena. Sometimes you just need a little help to get on the right track. I’m on it now and it feels out-of-this-world amazing!”

Beatrice, UK

“Marlena is the best couples counsellor we’ve ever seen. She helped both us loads. Our marriage was in a really bad place and neither one of us thought we’d recover but with Marlena’s help we did. She’s a miracle worker! I probably wouldn’t believe it if it hadn’t happen to me but it’s true. We can’t thank her enough!”

Lauren, UK

“My girlfriend and I both worked with Marlena together. We had video calls and completed exercise by ourselves. It was incredible how much we didn’t know about ourselves or each other! What we learnt was a game changer. Our relationship improved more than we could have anticipated. I may even consider proposing soon (but shhhh!).”

Jake, US

How This Course Will Help You


How You Will Get Relationship Ready

Discover the 12 Main Healthy Relationships Traits

This module sets the tone for what to expect in a healthy relationship.

Learn about the 12 main qualities a healthy relationship is based on so you can create the relationship you’ve always dreamed of!

You get a chance to explore what these qualities mean to you, how you have experienced them in the past and how you want to express them in your current or future relationship.

Exorcise the 12 Most Destructive Relationships Traits

In Module 2, we learn about the qualities of unhealthy relationships and how they destroy our feelings of love and connection.

You will be asked to identify the 12 main features of an unhealthy relationship in your past relationships and explore how they are present in your life today.

Get Real About Your Relationships Expectations

This eye-opening module breaks through all the love delusions that have been culturally reinforced and only serve to set us up for disappointment and heartbreak.

You will debunk popular relationship myths and adjust your expectations so you can begin to form healthy relationships that you can actually enjoy. 

Out with the old, in with the new!

Discover the Secret Pattern That Destroys Your Relationships

Your fourth mission is to identify your relationship pattern by revisiting past relationships. Once you are aware of a pattern that doesn’t serve you, you can break it by consciously making different choices. 

 This module helps you to finally figure out why your past relationships didn’t work out – the true cause is usually a HUGE surprise!


Identify the Unconscious Blueprint That Sets You Up to Fail

We all have an unconscious blueprint of how we believe relationships work and the roles we must take on in them. When we are unaware of this, we run an auto-pilot and make choices that often harm our relationship.

This module helps you make sense of your childhood relationships and that with your parents so that you can identify your relationship blueprint and discover the unconscious way you believe relationships should and must work.


Create your Relationship Vision!

This module gives you an opportunity to focus on what you want.

Now that you know about what’s healthy and unhealthy and have debunked some of the most destructive relationship myths, you get to conjure up a vision for the kind of relationship you would like to have.

Allow yourself to be inspired and express what you really want because this is the only way you will be able to move in the direction of what you want and to make it happen!


Update Your Relationships Blueprint 

Once you get to this point, you have already learnt about so many things that most people don’t even know exist. But now it’s time to integrate it all and set you up for a successful relationship experience. 

This module helps you make sense of it all and motivate you to open up for new and healthy relationship experiences. 

Now it’s time to try again, but this time you know everything you need to know to have a good chance at succeeding in creating and getting what you want.


This course will fully prepare you for the challenge of creating a healthy relationship. It includes more material than a full year of face-to-face therapy or coaching and is, therefore, an incredible opportunity to grow personally and relationally so you can get more of what you really want. 

What This Course Includes

Meditations with Marlena

Downloadable so you can listen wherever you go.

The Relationship Ready Coursebook

Your Relationship Ready coursebook contains all 7 Modules and all your activities required to get you relationship ready.

The Relationship Ready Course Guarantee

This Course is 100% RISK-FREE!

If, for whatever reason, you don’t feel that you are getting the value you expected to get from my Relationship Ready Course, please email me within 30 days with proof of completing the outlined activities.

I want to make sure you get what you want and that you’re happy with it! If the Relationship Ready Course isn’t it, then I won’t stand in your way of finding something more suitable for you.

Here’s how it works:

Simply enroll in ‘Get Relationship ready’ right now and use the material straight away.

It’s easy to use and even easier to apply! See for yourself how easy it is to have a new completely new experience of a relationship once you know the secrets that make it work.

Exclusive Offer

Meditation with marlena

Book and pay for your place on the course today and receive an exclusive ‘Relationship Ready’ meditation created by Marlena

What If You Don’t Take Any Action?

Continue to choose unsuitable partners

Waste more precious time

Stay unhappy, unfulfilled, and unloved

Know things could be much better

Miss out on an amazing relationship

Stay in an unloving relationship

Repeat old, unhealthy patterns

Deprive yourself of intimacy

Feel undesirable and unwanted

Wonder what could have been

Don’t do it to yourself! Let’s sort it out together – once and for all.

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