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Courses & Coaching to Develop Self-Love, Self-Confidence & Healthy Relationship Skills

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finally feel good about yourself and develop genuine self-love, self-confidence and self-empowerment

get what you want by setting boundaries with ease and expressing yourself authentically and openly 

build real connection, true intimacy & healthy relationships that leave you feeling loved, valued and happy

create a future filled with love, fun and confidence instead of codependency and insecurity


Let me tell you why it’s not too late for you get what you want in love and life.


You truly value yourself and so it’s easy and enjoyable to make great choices for you that enrich your life and improve your wellbeing inside and outside of your relationship

You choose partners who respect, value and care about you and who truly want to be with you instead of emotionally unavailable, immature, unhealthy or abusive ones

You feel good about yourself, know who you are and manage to stand your ground in relationships without being confrontational, uncaring or selfish

It’s easy for you to get what you want because you know what you want, can comfortably ask for it and confidently receive it instead of feeling confused or guilty 

“I went through my whole life by myself even though I have always been in relationships. I chose very badly for myself but no matter how hard I tried, I always seemed to end up with yet another horrible man.

Even though I always knew that I should leave I felt that I just couldn’t – I felt too lost and empty. I really didn’t know what to do with myself.

Then I found Marlena through her articles. They spoke to me. Until then, I’d always feared it was just me and that I was crazy. I couldn’t believe I could be helped but she totally did it. Clearly a miracle worker 😉

I decided to leave my abusive relationship after 5 years of struggling and suffering and actually wanted to spend time by myself. I had never wanted that before! And it was magic!

Then I met a new guy and I didn’t have all the crazy stuff going on that happened every time I started a new relationship. I actually got to enjoy the honeymoon phase for once – I’m just so happy and grateful to Marlena. Working with her was a total game changer!

Leah, UK


“Self-love, confidence and relationship success is not reserved for a special few. It is something we can all create and achieve

… once we know how to.”

Transformative Courses

Learn what it takes to develop genuine self-esteem, represent yourself confidently, set healthy boundaries, get what you want and be healthy and happy in your relationships.

A SECURE Community

Join the Love with Clarity community to find the best and most effective ways to develop your secure self and a healthy relationship mindset break free from codependency once and for all.


Make sense of your experiences and struggles  so you can free yourself from them and learn to be happy and healthy in love and life by becoming your confident, calm and secure self.

“I'd been struggling with depression all my life. I always felt like there was no life left in me. Finding myself in one abusive relationship after another didn't help.

I felt I was going mad on the inside while trying to look perfect on the outside. I was so tired and so exhausted from just going through the motions and doing everything by myself.

I couldn't go on like this and gave myself one last chance. I decided to work with Marlena even though I was worried about spending the money and committing my time BUT it was the BEST decision I ever made because my life has changed in such amazing ways!

No more deadbeat partners, no more hating on myself, no more boredom or feeling empty. I didn't think it was possible but there you go ... so glad I was wrong!

I even enjoy self-care these days when that is something I never felt I had time for or even wanted to do. I recommend working with Marlena to everyone. It is a truly transformational experience!”

Jamie, US


Truly Understand Yourself

Begin to understand yourself better, find the root causes of your struggles, make sense of it all and realise that you’re not broken but only need to learn how to take care of yourself in a way that leaves you feeling liked, connected, calm, supported and confident.

Get Present & Feel Connected

Let go of past traumas, disappointments, insecurities, fears and worries to make space for feeling calm, relaxed and happy while knowing what you want or need and feeling confident and comfortable with making that happen.

Feel & Master Your Feelings

Let go of fighting and fearing your feelings and instead learn to understand and regulate them so they become your biggest asset and allow you to create the wonderful connections and deeply intimate relationships you have been craving.

Create Healthy & Amazing Relationships

Let go of what doesn’t work, learn new and healthy ways of being and connecting – free from judgment and shame – and finally experience true intimacy.

Feel Safe, Loved & Happy

It’s finally time to leave the emotional misery that’s been plaguing you all your life behind and make space for a new experience! Learn to feel loved, safe, confident and happy within your relationship AND yourself and experience a love you never knew existed.

Create a Life You're Proud Of

Never knew what you wanted to do? Didn’t realise that you could make things happen too? Well, now it’s time to make room for fun, a social life and exciting adventures. There’s no more time to waste. The good bit starts now! 

You were not made to endure life. You were always meant to thrive in life and deep down you know it.

Working With Me Is Perfect For You If …

You are ready to take action to improve your life

You are ready to value yourself by invest in your wellbeing & your future

You cannot wait to learn to like and love yourself

You want to unleash your potential and are willing to do what it takes

You are motivated, proactive and are developing a 'can-do-attitude'

You take personal responsibility for creating the change you want to see

You are ready to get honest and change what needs to change

You are willing to learn how to be healthy in relationships

Hi I’m Marlena

I’m a fully qualified and highly experienced psychotherapist, relationship coach and codependency expert.

I help people develop their inner security and self-esteem, become confident and develop healthy relationship skills so they can get the love they need – from themselves and from healthy others.

It doesn’t matter what happened to you in the past. It doesn’t matter what you are struggling with today. You can feel good about yourself and you can have the relationship you want.

I know these are big statements. But they can be your reality too – just like they are mine.

I understand your struggles. I know the pain, the loneliness, the hopelessness. I have been there and I get it. But it doesn’t have to end here. 

Let me tell you again: You can get the love you need.

I did it. Now let’s make it happen for you too.

With Love, Marlena

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“I actually like myself now after working with Marlena. And I guess that’s why I managed to get into a good relationship. No more push and pull. No more hot and cold. I know I couldn’t have done it without Marlena. Sometimes you just need a little help to get on the right track. I’m on it now and it feels out-of-this-world amazing!”

Beatrice, UK

“Marlena is the best couples counsellor we’ve ever seen. She helped both us loads. Our marriage was in a really bad place and neither one of us thought we’d recover but with Marlena’s help we did. She’s a miracle worker! I probably wouldn’t believe it if it hadn’t happen to me but it’s true. I can’t thank her enough!”

Lauren, UK

“My girlfriend and I both worked with Marlena together. We had video calls and completed exercise by ourselves. It was incredible how much we didn’t know about ourselves or each other! What we learnt was a game changer. Our relationship improved more than we could have anticipated. I may even consider proposing soon (but shhhh!).”

Jake, US

Exclusive Offer

Join Fully Connected

It’s time time to end your pain and start creating the relationship of your dreams. Resolve your codependency and relationship issues with Marlena’s revolutionary ‘FULLY CONNECTED’ course. Please don’t wait another day.

Why wouldn’t you?


Resolving your codependency and relationship issues now means that you will benefit from having the following in your life.

Know exactly who you are and feel good about it

Stay true to yourself even when in a relationship

Take charge of your mind and feel in control

Take chances, get excited and make cool things happen

Feel confident, empowered, inspired and motivated

Create a healthy, intimate, safe and loving relationship

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