The Clarity Cure

A 10 week 1-1 Service to help you make sense of your relationship struggles and gain clarity about what to do next
I need clarity

Gain a new understanding of your struggles and experiences so you can finally make sense of what's going on for you and make better and healthier choices in love and life.

Does This Describe You?


Are you in a painful or difficult relationship and just don’t know what to do?



Do you struggle to make sense of your problems and difficult experiences in relationships?



Do you question whether you should stay and fight on or finally leave but you just can’t make up your mind?



Do you want to make a decision but just don’t know what to do because you feel overwhelmed and confused?



Or do you have a pattern of failed relationships and you need to figure out what keeps going wrong to stop it?



If So, You Need CLARITY!

What Would It Be Like For You If …


you could narrow down your problems to a few single core issues without feeling overwhelmed and confused?



you truly understood what was going on for you so you could make your next decision with confidence?



you felt comfortable about what you want and didn’t need any excuses to go and get it?



you could purposefully choose solutions that feel right to you and that address and resolve your core issues?



you finally felt back in charge of your own life again?


Because All Of This Is Possible For You!

And I can show you how …

It’s horrible to be in a difficult or even painful situation without knowing how to fix it or what to do next.

Our relationships are so important to us and yet, they seem to cause us no end of emotional distress. 

I’ve been there many times …

My name is Marlena and I used to doubt myself, question my actions, mistrust my partner, read more, learn more, control more, try to fix more … it never worked. All I did was exhaust myself while suffering in whatever situation I felt trapped in.

At first, I tried to hide my problems – I just felt too embarrassed! After all, I was doing well in the other areas of my life so I just couldn’t understand that I was failing so miserably in my romantic relationship. 

Eventually, my sense of self-worth and confidence nose-dived. I kept asking myself and a huge number of mental health professionals just what was wrong with me. They were happy to label and diagnose me but no one ever pinpointed the cause of my distress and so I simply couldn’t solve my problems.

Until I decided to take a different approach. Instead of focusing on the problems, I explored what a healthy alternative looked like and guess what? Suddenly things started to make sense.

Everything I had always judged as irrational or simply didn’t understand began to appear logical based on the patterns I developed during my childhood.

And of course nothing makes sense if you don’t take unresolved trauma and your codependent conditioning into consideration!

And so I began to make sense of my feelings, my struggles and my experiences. All of a sudden I understood and realised that there was nothing inherently wrong with me, which is why I can reassure you that there is nothing inherently wrong with you either.

At this point, you just lack clarity and a true understanding of your core issues. It’s not a character flaw and it’s not your fault.

But there is something you can do about it because once you know, you’ll know how to solve your problems too. You don’t lack the skills or personality. You just need more clarity.

Just like I did.

And now, I’m here to save you time and distress by showing you how to do it.

Let’s do this together.

What’s Included?

The Clarity Cure is a 1-1 service that lasts 10 weeks and includes the following:



1 Clinical Assessment Session to identify your starting point and to gain a comprehensive overview of what is happening in your life, mind and relationships so that we can begin to spot your lies of the mind, thought traps and love blocks.



5 Private Sessions with Marlena lasting 50 minutes each over the duration of the 10 weeks so that you can get some feedback and and check in with someone who understands you.


5 Email Exchanges for in-between Session Support so you can stay on track with your sense-making activities and self-exploaration exercises. 


8 Transformational Activities that help you understand yourself better based on your conditioned patterns so that you finally understand why you do what you do and so that you can break the vicious cycle.


Access to the Marlena’s Codependency Course so that you can gain a new understanding of how codependency really affects you and take steps to end this painful struggle forever.

Now let me share with you how gaining clarity has changed my life

I Have Escaped My Hellish Relationship Struggles

Recurring arguments that would last days, trust isssues, jealousy, insecurities, constant disrespect, emotional neglect and abusive behaviours are things of the past.

Instead, there’s goodwill, fun, silliness, actual suspport – both emotionally and practically – appreciation, passion and intimacy.


I No Longer Feel Like I'm About to Lose My Mind

There were times I felt like I was actually losing myself. The anxiety, the hidden anger, the heart-breaking disappointment, the shame, and all the other emotional distress felt too much to bear for just one person.

Today I know what’s going on for me, what I need and want and how to express it and get it. That’s life-changing!


My Struggles Now Make Sense

Not know what was going on for me or what caused my problems led me to believe I was mentally ill. I wasn’t. I just didn’t know how my feelings were linked to my past experiences, patterns and my conditioning.

Now I know, I feel like I have solid care instrictions for myself that help me take care of myself with understandig, self-compassion and confidence.



I Have Co-Created a Healthy and Loving Relationship

Who would have thought!? Gaining clarity has helped me calm the chaos within myself and my relationship. I can see the cycles and dynamics and so can take measured action to counteract anything that doesn’t serve me.

I am ‘me’ in my relationship and have found a healthy balance of interdepending with mutual respect, consideration, love care.


But best of all, I can finally trust myself. 

Paul’s Testimonial

I literally spent most of my adult life trying to figure out what went wrong – why, as a relatively smart and competent guy, was my life constantly falling apart? Why was I always losing the things which meant the most to me?

The short answer – was relationships. How I understood, operated in, experienced, and managed all of my relationships (intimate, work, friends, family, kids) – was the cause of *all* of my problems. Of course – the most important relationship is the one with myself.

After years of trying to work it out, looking everywhere for answers, whilst all the time making the same mistakes, it took me hitting rock bottom – to finally accept that I needed help. I wasn’t going to find the answers on my own. I was sensible enough to recognise that it wasn’t just help I needed, but professional help, from a person who was trained, experienced and skillful in the area I needed help in.

Marlena was the first person I have met (and I have worked with and learned from many many people) – who has successfully worked through the same issues that I was dealing with, had figured it out, and learned how to ‘teach’ the information in a way that is spot on for me. But most importantly, Marlena has acquired the experience and skills to work with people very effectively. […]

I discovered a whole new world – a world where my old thinking and choices and actions made complete sense. Where I learned where my behaviours came from, what caused them.

Most importantly, I found a person I could trust. I trusted Marlena’s information – about what is ok and what is not. About what is functional and what is not. What ought to be acceptable and what not. Where the problems really came from, as opposed to where they looked like they came from. I realised I didn’t know those things! It was like an epiphany. Everything started falling into place. And things changed quickly for me.

I’m an independent person. I don’t like to be ‘told’. I like to explore, learn, reflect – at my own pace. Marlena’s Codependency Recovery Programme is perfect for me. It allows me to learn and understand – about the true root cause of my relationship problems. The membership group is a place where we can ask questions openly, and receive trusted responses from Marlena. I can work as fast or as slow as I like.

But the most important part for me – is that is was the help I was looking for. I simply can’t recommend it enough. It has been a life-changer for me – perhaps even a life-saver. Come and join me and the others in the group, on this journey – back to life, love, and happiness. The journey home, to your true self.

With love, Paul ❤️👍 x


(Find Paul’s review on the Love with Clarity Facebook page in the review section.)

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How Exactly Will This Help Me?

The Clarity Cure is a process that helps you understand yourself better by reconnecting with your feelings, needs, desires and values so that you get clear on what you want for yourself and from your relationships and can take appropriate action that improves your life in transformational ways. 


A Clinical Assessment Session

The perfect opportunity to let it all out and unburden yourself.

Share your sorrows and your fears and let Marlena help you make sense of it so it all starts to feel more manageable. 

Get a clear idea of what’s going on for you and what steps you’ll be taking towards feeling better and figuring out what to do next in your Clarity sessions. 


Your 5 Private Sessions with Marlena will help you to feel understood, make sense of what is going on for you, and get very honest about what it is you actually want and need from your relationship and life.

During these sessions you will get to know yourself like never before, which will allow you to make changes that will improve your life dramatically.

Marlena challenges in compasionate ways and applies logic to struggles and situations that have never made sense before. 


Your 5 Email Exchanges for in-between Session Support are an ideal opportunity to share your thoughts and realisations with Marlena so she can direct you by providing reassurance and encouragement.

You will also be provided with additional activities that will help you gain more clarity about your current situations and how you want it to improve.

The email sesssions are highly effective as you will receive feedback that allows you to logically and practically reassess your current problems and plan your next action steps.

Marlena’s 8 Transformational Activities are especially designed to help you strenghten the relationship you have with yourself by gaining more self-understanding, self-esteem, self-belief, and self-confidence so that you will stop hesistating to do what is right for you without feeling judged or pressurised to do anything you are not ready for. This happens on YOUR terms! Here are some examples of what the activities will help you to do:

  • Getting in touch with your feelings, wants and needs 
  • Identifying your relationship patterns and love blocks
  • Completing an emotional needs inventory
  • Determining your non-negotiable needs
  • Creating your relationship vision

Time-Limited SPECIAL BONUS: Access to the Marlena’s Codependency Course 

Learn about codependency like never before so that you can gain a new understanding of it and discover how it really affects you in your relationships and life.

Discover empowering ways to end your painful and codependent struggles forever.

“I went through my whole life by myself even though I have always been in relationships. I chose very badly for myself but no matter how hard I tried, I always seemed to end up with yet another horrible man.

Even though I always knew that I should leave I felt that I just couldn’t – I felt too lost and empty. I really didn’t know what to do with myself.

Then I found Marlena through her articles. They spoke to me. Until then, I’d always feared it was just me and that I was crazy. I couldn’t believe I could be helped but she totally did it. Clearly a miracle worker 😉

I decided to leave my abusive relationship after 5 years of struggling and suffering and actually wanted to spend time by myself. I had never wanted that before! And it was magic!

Then I met a new guy and I didn’t have all the crazy stuff going on that happened every time I started a new relationship. I actually got to enjoy the honeymoon phase for once – I’m just so happy and grateful to Marlena. Working with her was a total game changer!

Leah, UK

Working with Marlena Is PERFECT FOR YOU If …

You’ve tried many different ways of getting help to resolve your issues but none of them really worked or resulted in lasting change and you’ve lost confidence and hope.


You are ready to learn new ways of treating yourself, responding to yourself and investing in yourself. This is about learning to value yourself so that others will value you too. It has to start with you.

You are ambitious and willing to put in the work and do what it takes. Feeling uncomfortable every now and then is not going to stop you and you are determined to end your misery and give yourself a fresh start in love and life.

You can look at yourself, take personal responsibility and face some truths that may feel uncomfortable at first but will ultimately set you free.

You are not interested in plastering over the cracks. You want to address the core issues and root causes so you can be done with it once and for all.

You want to work with an expert who has personal experience and so truly understands the distress you’re experiencing without judging you or invalidating your feelings.

Professional expertise and competence is important to you and you want someone to support you who knows exactly how to end your suffering and teaches you what you need to know and do to get what you want. 

If you are willing and open to get really honest with yourself and do what it takes to improve your experience of life, then you will be successful in your relationships and in life – I’ll make sure of that.

But you have to say YES first. Give yourself what you need.

“I’d been struggling with depression all my life. I always felt like there was no life left in me. Finding myself in one abusive relationship after another didn’t help.

I felt I was going mad on the inside while trying to look perfect on the outside. I was so tired and so exhausted from just going through the motions and doing everything by myself.

I couldn’t go on like this and gave myself one last chance. I decided to work with Marlena even though I was worried about spending the money and committing my time BUT it was the BEST decision I ever made because my life has changed in such amazing ways!

No more deadbeat partners, no more hating on myself, no more boredom or feeling empty. I didn’t think it was possible but there you go … so glad I was wrong!

I even enjoy self-care these days when that is something I never felt I had time for or even wanted to do. I recommend working with Marlena to everyone. It is a truly transformational experience!”

Jamie, US

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Say YES to the Clarity Cure

At a special price of $1450 in full for your 10 week Clarity Cure experience instead of $1950 or

OR initial payment of $500 followed by 9 weekly payments of $125


NOTE: Marlena ONLY accepts clients who are ready to do the work necessary to make substantial improvements in their lives.


This is an investment in yourself: your emotional wellbeing, your mental health, your relationships, your life satisfation, your family, your (future) children, your future and your dreams. It’s time to end the misery and make a fresh start by making sense of it all – and this time with healing support, compassionate and empowering guidance and deep care.

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